Fucking Perfect

My name is Beth, I am 53, going grey, overweight and Fucking Perfect.

I don’t know how many times, I have seen posts about curvy girls, slim girls and all those in between.

I don’t know how many times I have seen posts about gays, bi, transgender and straight people.

Additionally there are posts about people who have children, those who don’t. Those who have fur babies and those who don’t.

Oh and before I forget there are the writings about ugly and beauty, thigh gap or no thigh gap, old and young and finally; fat and skinny v obesity and Anorexia.

Some have been nasty, some have been kind and fuck it I am going to get straight to the point.

We are all perfect; fucking perfect –

We are all human size. We are all feelings sized. We are all perfect – and I say that as I stare over my big fat tum. I don’t care.

We have to be real. We all have faults. EVERYONE DOES.

It’s hard to believe but everyone does. Next time you compare, next time you step up to your virtual “podium/stage” remember this; we all think at some time of our lives that we are unworthy, that we are not good enough, that we will never have enough or be enough. Mental health illnesses like depression are great at giving us all masks to hide behind and social media does not help hiding behind likes and approval without actually having met many real life friends in the flesh. Wake up. Social media generally only portrays the happy things with many a friend leaving my page as I post deep and dark truths. Sad but true.

It took me 52 years to realise I am fucking perfect. I am and always have been.

“Pretty, pretty please, don’t you ever ever feel

Like you’re less than fuckin’ perfect

Pretty pretty please, if you ever, ever feel like you’re nothing

You’re fuckin’ perfect to me!”

(Lyrics Fuckin’ Perfect – Pink)

Pink had it right.

Your fucking perfect to me.

Make you fucking perfect to you.

Do it.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s